When Vera Dijkmans, a 27-year-old London-based model with over seven million social media followers, announced she was accepting boyfriend applications, the internet took notice. What followed was an extraordinary social experiment: 5,000 men applied, but only three met her incredibly high standards.
A Bold Approach to Dating
Dijkmans isn’t just another social media influencer. She’s a self-proclaimed dating strategist who believes women should demand more from their romantic relationships. Her philosophy? Know your worth and never settle.
The Non-Negotiable Dating Rules
A London-based model has declared herself the ‘world’s most wanted girlfriend’ after receiving a staggering 5,000 applications from men hoping to date her. Credit: @veradjikmans/Instagram
In her viral interviews, Dijkmans breaks down her dating commandments:
Respect Yourself First: “Women need to have more respect for themselves and set clear boundaries with men,” she emphasizes.
Demand Genuine Effort: Late-night “Netflix and chill” invitations are a hard no. She wants men who plan thoughtful dates and show genuine interest.
The Gesture Matters More Than the Price: While she’s received luxury gifts from designer brands, Dijkmans values the sentiment. “A simple bouquet can speak volumes,” she says.
Red Flags to Watch Out For
Dijkmans is brutally honest about warning signs in potential partners:
Inconsistent Communication: Men who only text after 10 PM are not worth your time.
Poor Personal Maintenance: Hygiene and financial responsibility are crucial.
Empty Promises: Beware of men who talk big but deliver little.
Facing the Backlash
Her bold approach hasn’t been without criticism. Some family members and professionals have called her methods “disgraceful.” Yet, Dijkmans remains unapologetic.
“I’m just very picky,” she declares. “I’d rather be single than compromise on what I deserve.”
The Bigger Picture
Beyond the attention and applications, Dijkmans has a powerful message: Your self-worth isn’t determined by relationship status. “Getting attention from men is not the most important thing in life,” she reminds us.
Key Takeaways for Single Women
- Set clear boundaries
- Expect genuine effort
- Don’t compromise on your standards
Understand that being single is better than being in the wrong relationship
With her “princess treatment” philosophy, Vera Dijkmans is rewriting the dating rulebook—one boundary at a time.
